Planning Groomsmen Attire

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A Complete Checklist & Steps to Planning Groomsmen Attire

I truly think planning groomsmen attire deserves just as much attention as bridesmaid dresses — just with less chaos and more clarity. The groomsmen are standing beside you, showing up for you, adjusting ties, calming nerves, and helping carry the energy of the day.

Their outfits don’t have to be complicated to look incredible. When coordinated properly, groomsmen attire creates cohesion in photos, balances the bridal party visually, and supports the overall wedding aesthetic.

This guide walks through a complete groomsmen attire checklist, step-by-step planning timeline, suit vs. tux decisions, color coordination, budget conversations, fitting tips, and how to keep everything polished and stress-free.

Let’s make it smooth.

Why Groomsmen Style Matters More Than You Think

Groomsmen stand front and center during the ceremony. They appear in portraits, reception entrances, and candid shots throughout the day. Their attire frames the groom visually.

I personally love when groomsmen styling complements the wedding palette rather than overpowering it. Clean lines, cohesive tones, and thoughtful accessories go a long way.

Well-planned groomsmen attire:

 • Elevates wedding photos

 • Creates visual balance

 • Reflects the formality of the event

 • Helps everyone feel confident

 • Reduces last-minute stress

It’s structure that supports celebration.

The Groomsmen Attire Planning Checklist

Here’s your high-level checklist before diving into steps:

✔ Decide suit vs. tuxedo

✔ Choose overall color direction

✔ Match formality to venue

✔ Confirm budget expectations

✔ Collect sizes privately

✔ Decide tie or bow tie

✔ Choose pocket square style

✔ Confirm shoe color

✔ Coordinate with bridesmaid colors

✔ Schedule fittings

✔ Confirm pickup or delivery timeline

✔ Steam/press before wedding

Now let’s break it down clearly.

Step-by-Step Guide to Planning Groomsmen Attire

Step 1: Decide Suit or Tuxedo

This depends on the wedding’s formality.

Tuxedo works well for:

 • Black-tie weddings

 • Formal ballroom venues

 • Evening ceremonies

Suit works well for:

 • Outdoor weddings

 • Beach ceremonies

 • Rustic venues

 • Daytime celebrations

I personally think matching the attire to the venue elevates the entire aesthetic.

Step 2: Choose a Cohesive Color Palette

Classic options include:

 • Black

 • Navy

 • Charcoal

 • Light gray

 • Beige or tan for summer

Consider your wedding palette when choosing suit color. Deep navy pairs beautifully with blush florals. Charcoal complements jewel tones. Light gray looks stunning with pastel palettes.

Avoid choosing a color that competes with bridesmaid dresses.

Step 3: Coordinate with the Bride’s Vision

Even though this guide focuses on groomsmen, coordination matters.

Discuss:

 • Bridesmaid dress color

 • Bouquet tones

 • Overall wedding vibe

The groomsmen should complement, not clash.

Step 4: Set a Clear Budget Early

Be transparent with groomsmen about:

 • Rental vs. purchase

 • Approximate cost

 • Alteration expectations

 • Shoe requirements

Clear communication prevents awkward conversations later.

If selecting a higher-end option, consider whether you’d like to gift part of the attire.

Step 5: Collect Measurements Privately

Ask for:

 • Jacket size

 • Pant waist and inseam

 • Shoe size

 • Height

Encourage professional measurements if renting or buying suits.

Proper fit changes everything.

Step 6: Choose Shirt & Tie Style

White dress shirts are timeless.

Tie options include:

 • Solid ties matching wedding colors

 • Subtle textured ties

 • Coordinated pocket squares

 • Bow ties for formal weddings

Keep it cohesive but not overly coordinated.

I personally love when ties subtly reflect the floral palette without matching exactly.

Step 7: Confirm Shoe Color & Style

Shoe color should align with suit tone.

 • Black suits = black shoes

 • Navy suits = brown or black shoes

 • Gray suits = brown or oxblood

Encourage polished leather or clean suede depending on formality.

Comfort matters — long wedding days require good footwear.

Step 8: Decide on Boutonnieres

Boutonnieres tie the entire look together.

Coordinate with the florist so flowers match bouquets.

Keep them simple:

 • One bloom

 • Small greenery

 • Clean wrap

Avoid overly large boutonnieres that overpower lapels.

Step 9: Plan Fittings Early

Timeline suggestion:

4–6 months out: Finalize attire direction

3 months out: Collect measurements

2 months out: Order or reserve rentals

1 month out: Schedule fittings

2 weeks out: Confirm pickup

1 week out: Final fit check

Last-minute scrambling is avoidable with structure.

Step 10: Designate a Day-Of Organizer

Choose one reliable groomsman to:

 • Confirm everyone has attire

 • Check ties are tied properly

 • Ensure boutonnieres are pinned

 • Handle small emergencies

Delegating reduces stress on the groom.

Rental vs. Purchase: Which Is Better?

Rental works well when:

 • Budget is tight

 • Formal tuxedo required

 • One-time wear

Purchase works well when:

 • Suit is versatile

 • Multiple weddings upcoming

 • Custom fit preferred

I personally think purchasing navy or charcoal suits often gives better long-term value.

Matching Groomsmen to Different Wedding Styles

Let’s explore styling ideas by wedding type.

Formal Evening Wedding

Black tuxedos

Black bow ties

Patent leather shoes

Rustic Outdoor Wedding

Light gray suits

Brown leather shoes

Textured ties

Beach Wedding

Tan suits

No jackets optional

Light linen fabric

Modern City Wedding

Slim navy suits

Minimalist black ties

Polished brown shoes

Keep styling aligned with location.

Common Groomsmen Attire Mistakes to Avoid

Avoid these common issues:

 • Waiting too long to order

 • Mismatched shoe colors

 • Ill-fitting jackets

 • Forgetting cufflinks

 • Over-accessorizing

Clean and tailored always wins.

FAQ: Planning Groomsmen Attire

Should all groomsmen match exactly?

Usually yes, but subtle variations in tie texture can work.

Does the groom need to stand out?

Yes. Consider a different boutonniere, tie shade, or jacket detail.

Who pays for groomsmen attire?

Traditionally groomsmen pay, but couples can contribute if desired.

Can groomsmen choose their own shoes?

Provide clear guidelines to keep things cohesive.

When should attire be finalized?

At least 3–4 months before the wedding.

Sharp, Confident, Coordinated

Planning groomsmen attire doesn’t need to feel complicated. When you:

 • Choose color intentionally

 • Communicate budget clearly

 • Order early

 • Prioritize fit

 • Coordinate accessories

Everything falls into place.

I personally love when groomsmen look polished but comfortable — relaxed confidence photographs beautifully.

Strong styling supports the groom. Clean lines frame the ceremony. Coordinated colors balance the wedding party.

When everyone stands together, confident and cohesive, the entire celebration feels elevated.

Wishing you the best at your beautiful wedding! ✨

Warmly,

Jenna