DIY Just Married Mr. & Mrs. Cake Topper

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Honestly, I’m Already Thinking Ice Cream Cake and a Name Topper! What about you?

I’ll be honest — when I picture our wedding cake, I’m not imagining anything overly formal. I keep thinking about an ice cream cake with our names on it, something playful and personal that makes people smile before they even take a bite. That’s exactly why a DIY “Just Married” cake topper feels so special to me. It’s small, but it carries a lot of joy.

Cake toppers are one of those details guests notice up close. They show up in photos, videos, and memory snapshots long after the cake is gone. Creating one yourself doesn’t have to be complicated. With a little creativity, it can feel thoughtful, charming, and completely your own.

Why a DIY Cake Topper Feels More Meaningful Than a Store-Bought One

A DIY cake topper carries intention in a quiet way. It reflects choices — colors you love, shapes that feel right, and words that matter to you.

I’ve always loved details that feel handcrafted because they invite personality into the celebration. A practical example: even a simple blank topper with handwritten names instantly feels warmer than something mass-produced. Guests may not know why it feels special, but they feel it.

DIY toppers also allow flexibility. Whether your cake is traditional, modern, whimsical, or an ice cream stack, you can adjust size, color, and style so it fits naturally rather than competing for attention.

How to Create a Floral “Just Married” Cake Topper

This floral topper style works beautifully for classic cakes, ice cream cakes, and even dessert tables.

 1. Choose your base shape (circle, hexagon, or arch works well).

 2. Select a sturdy material like acrylic, wood, or thick cardstock.

 3. Lightly sketch placement for words and florals before attaching anything.

 4. Add lettering using vinyl decals, paint pens, or handwritten calligraphy.

 5. Let text fully dry to avoid smudging during assembly.

 6. Trim faux or fresh flowers so stems are short and lightweight.

 7. Attach flowers using floral tape or craft glue, starting from the bottom edge.

 8. Layer greenery first, then focal flowers, then delicate accents.

 9. Secure cake-safe picks or sticks to the back of the topper.

 10. Test balance by gently holding it upright before placing on the cake.

This style feels romantic without being heavy, and it photographs beautifully from multiple angles.

Ten Eye-Catching “Just Married” Cake Topper Ideas

These ideas work for a wide range of wedding styles and cake types.

 1. Minimal script lettering on a clear base

 2. Gold foil words on a white or neutral topper

 3. Floral half-wreath design framing the text

 4. Single initial monogram with the wedding date

 5. Soft pastel painted background with white lettering

 6. Wooden topper with burned lettering

 7. Clear acrylic with pressed flowers

 8. Modern black topper with white ink

 9. Rounded arch shape with delicate greenery

 10. Simple “Just Married” phrase with no names at all

I tend to gravitate toward toppers that leave space around the words. Negative space makes everything feel calmer and more intentional.

Five Unique and Creative Cake Topper Ideas Guests Remember

Sometimes it’s the unexpected details that stay with people.

 • Ice cream-friendly topper that sits slightly lower so it doesn’t melt into the cake

 • Layered topper with two thin shapes stacked for depth

 • Color-blocked design using wedding palette tones

 • Convertible topper that becomes home décor afterward

 • Handwritten message using one partner’s handwriting

A practical example: if you plan to keep your topper, choosing neutral colors makes it easy to display later without feeling overly themed.

Choosing the Right Shape for Your Cake Topper

Shape influences the overall mood more than most people realize.

Circles feel soft and balanced, great for romantic or playful cakes.

Hexagons add structure and work well for modern designs.

Arches feel welcoming and visually frame the words beautifully.

When I’m unsure, I place paper cutouts on top of the cake size I’m planning. Seeing proportions in real life helps avoid guesswork.

Styling the Cake Table So the Topper Shines

A cake topper looks best when the surrounding space supports it.

A practical approach is keeping the cake table simple — neutral linens, minimal florals, and soft lighting. This allows the topper to become a focal point without competing elements.

If your topper includes flowers, echo those same blooms somewhere nearby, like the cake table edge or dessert signage. That repetition creates visual harmony without feeling styled.

Making Your Cake Topper Work for Ice Cream Cakes and Non-Traditional Desserts

Ice cream cakes and dessert stacks need slightly different considerations.

Choose lightweight materials so the topper doesn’t sink. Keep sticks shorter so they don’t reach deep into the cake. Acrylic and thin wood work especially well here.

I love the idea of a topper that rests gently rather than towering — it feels playful and intentional, especially for relaxed celebrations.

Personalized Cake Topper

A personalized cake topper adds meaning with names, initials, or dates. It becomes a keepsake long after the cake is gone.

Blank Circle Cake Topper

A blank circle topper offers flexibility for paint, lettering, or florals. Its shape feels soft and timeless.

Blank Hexagon Cake Topper

Hexagon toppers feel modern and structured. They work beautifully for clean designs and bold lettering.

Personalized Cake Cutting Knife

A personalized cake cutting knife adds a thoughtful detail to the cake moment. It pairs beautifully with a custom topper for photos.

Ball Cake Picks

Ball cake picks add height and texture without overwhelming the cake. They’re perfect for playful or modern styles.

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FAQ 1: Can a DIY cake topper be made ahead of time?

Yes, most toppers can be created weeks in advance and stored safely until the wedding.

FAQ 2: Do cake toppers work for dessert tables too?

Absolutely. They look beautiful on cupcakes, ice cream cakes, or shared desserts.

Small Design Choices That Make a Big Visual Difference

Letter spacing, color contrast, and scale matter more than complexity. A simple topper with clear lettering often photographs better than intricate designs.

One helpful trick: take a quick phone photo of your topper before finalizing it. If the words read clearly on camera, they’ll shine in wedding photos too.

A Sweet Detail Worth Making Your Own

A “Just Married” cake topper doesn’t need to be elaborate to feel meaningful. When it reflects your style — whether playful, romantic, or simple — it adds warmth to a moment already filled with joy.

At the end of the day, the topper is just one small part of the celebration — but it’s a sweet reminder that love shows up in the details.

Wishing you the best at your beautiful wedding! ✨

Warmly,

Jenna